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Tech Addicted? Yeah, We’re Talking To You

Posted on 24 July 2009 by


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We love our gadgets. They are great for work. They are great for play. They allow us to be connected in such a way that having to “call into the office to check messages” is a thing of the past. On many levels they make life easier and more convenient than ever.

There is, however, a dark side to all this constant connectivity. These devices break down the barriers between work and home. The result… every place becomes a potential for work, no place is automatically restful and interruptions are everywhere. Yes, there is no rest for the interconnected.

Inc. magazine has an interesting, if not disturbing, article on the phenomena. The article is entitled “Living With A Blackberry Addict” but it could just as easily refer to an iPhone, Android or Windows Mobile user. It points out that today we are anxiously connected BUT also feel anxious “when we disconnect from the world”.

The author goes on to quote MIT professor Sherry Turkle who observes,

It’s not good or bad — it’s here. That ship has sailed. But it does pose a question: What are our human values? Is it important to give full attention to whomever you’re with or to whatever you’re doing, no matter how seductive the technology? I’m not saying to stop using these devices. But we need to be more reflective about their use.

The author offers some suggestions which, while common sense, are worth consideration. It is a worthwhile read and, if it makes you a bit anxious… you KNOW it is talking about you!

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Having a father who was heavily involved in early laser and fiber-optical research, Dan grew up surrounded by technology and gadgets. Dan’s father brought home one of the very first video games when he was young and Dan remembers seeing a “pre-release” touchtone phone. (When he asked his father what the “#” and “*” buttons were his dad said, “Some day, far in the future, we’ll have some use for them.”) Technology seemed to be in Dan’s blood but at some point he took a different path and ended up in the clergy. His passion for technology and gadgets never left him. +Dan Cohen

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  • http://www.geardiary.com Michael Anderson

    I loved my BlackBerry (the pre-phone edition) but it was definitely a problem in terms of interfering with life. When I got ‘upgraded’ to a phone version and they could never make it work right and I eventually just got a phone … I couldn’t have been happier!

  • Carly Z

    I get in trouble all the time for checking my email constantly. I once took a businessweek quiz that told me I was severely addicted to the internet. But I’m not. I could quit at any time. Really. I just like it. It makes me happy. Happy happy internet. :)

  • Dan Cohen

    “But I’m not. I could quit at any time. Really.”

    SURE YOU COULD…
    :)

  • http://www.geardiary.com Michael Anderson

    I could not totally disconnect – I keep my computers in my office / studio in the basement, and my wife and kids call my MBP my ‘other woman’! :D

    That said, I loved being sans ‘net for a week on vacation – and since I only have a ‘dumb phone’ I was *really* disconnected.

  • Jason Reese

    I can certainly put myself into the ‘box’ Inc. magazine describes with constant mobile use and the blur between work/personal life. Not so long ago I was sleeping 3hrs (on a good night) between trying to answer *every* single message that came my way for assistance — and the constant stream of “escalations” that came with being a single point of contact for nine states’ of mobile end users. Good times.

    I failed to set clear boundaries and after a few years of going non-stop 24/7/365, it took it’s toll. It got pretty bad when I couldn’t even take a day off without the constant barage of emails/calls (but, it was my own fault for answering them ;) . I’ve since learned — the hard way — that a line has to be drawn between work and personal time. Sure, there are still late nights of work and some weekends spent on projects; but I make a point to schedule time back in for friends and family.

    Luckily, now the stress levels are not through the roof and I actually sleep these days. I had to “go dark” for a while to just enjoy not being plugged in and available all the time. I still try and do that a weekend a month (at least). It was hard, at first, because there is still the tendency to believe you have to be “on” all the time and if you don’t return someone’s message within 5 minutes the sky will fall.

    Guess what? It won’t. There are the truly important issues, and the noise. When I look back on it, I spent too much time dealing with the “noise.” Not every issue is the end all. It’s really important to draw that line in the sand early — even if it disappoints a few people. You can’t help everyone when they’re all pulling you in different directions. Of course, that is purely the “work” perspective. I know a lot of other folks I worked with were in the same bucket trying to be “everywhere at once” and available for everyone all the time. I don’t think they were too upset when the volume of devices were eventually pulled back. I don’t think their families were either ;)

    I totally embrace mobile lifestyle these devices now afford most of us these days. I now try and do a much better job communicating the distinction between a “job” and the rest of my life :)

  • http://www.s-consult.com/index.php Wayne Schulz

    Part of this lack of distinction between home and work is a hazard of being in the high tech world. The other part is that technology is greatly blurring the line between what’s work and what’s relaxation. I know for me I have numerous clients and prospective clients that I interact with on Facebook and other informal electronic areas. Maybe the question is whether the 9 to 5 work day is starting to become a thing of the past for certain professions.